Relationship anxiety does not disappear once the dating stage ends. Sometimes it shows up as planning, comparison, excitement, or constantly thinking about the next milestone. Lilly Wehman and Amelia Abernathy talk honestly about engagement anticipation, the pressure to seem like the “cool girl,” and how difficult it can be to stay present when the future…
Lilly Wehman and Amelia Abernathy use the Summer House Season 10 drama to talk about self-worth, friendship breakups, and what happens when someone moves from one relationship into the next without slowing down. They look at Ciara, Amanda, West, and Kyle through a therapist lens without trying to diagnose anyone. The conversation moves through staying…
In this episode, Lilly Wehman and Amelia Abernathy explore what it means to date while navigating a chronic illness. Through personal storytelling and a therapeutic lens, they unpack the realities of vulnerability, disclosure, and identity in relationships. The conversation highlights the emotional complexity of managing health challenges while dating, the impact of uncertainty on connection,…
In this episode, Amelia Abernathy and Lilly Wehman explore the evolving nature of friendships, relationships, and identity in your 20s. Through an honest and reflective conversation, they unpack how life transitions—dating, career shifts, and personal growth—reshape social dynamics and emotional connections. This episode highlights the tension between holding on and letting go, while offering a…
In this episode of Dating In Your 20s, Amelia sits down with Lilly to unpack the lessons, heartbreaks, and reality checks that shape so many of our dating experiences in our twenties. Inspired by Dolly Alderton’s book Everything I Know About Love, the conversation explores how dating, friendships, and self-discovery are deeply intertwined during this…
Your 20s are basically one ongoing identity crisis — dating feels confusing, friendships feel different than they used to, and everyone seems to be overwhelmed, healing, or “protecting their peace.” In this episode, Amelia and Lilly talk about one of the most underrated parts of dating in your 20s: the people around you matter just…
In today’s dating culture, where everyone is either soft launching, situationshipping, or pretending they don’t care…it almost feels controversial to say you have a boyfriend. Thanks to a recent Vogue article making its rounds, Amelia and Lilly dive into the very real (and very funny) question: Is having a boyfriend… embarrassing now? This episode unpacks…
In this episode, Amelia and Lilly dive into the idea of personal growth through relationships—how every connection, whether positive or painful, can become a mirror for self-development. Lilly shares her reflections on learning to recognize and celebrate growth, emphasizing the importance of honoring both the messy and meaningful parts of the journey. Together, they unpack…
In this episode, Amelia and Lilly recap their time at the Beauty Boost Chicago event and reflect on the power of community and supporting local businesses. They revisit the mission behind their podcast — offering a therapeutic lens on dating and relationships — and dive into the “unwritten rules” of modern dating. Together, they question…
In this episode of ‘Dating in Your 20s’, therapists Lilly Wehman and Amelia Abernathy share their personal experiences and insights on the emotional challenges of dating in their twenties. They discuss the vulnerability of early dating stages, the extremes of emotional responses, and the importance of community and shared experiences. The conversation emphasizes the need…